How important do you think sexual chemistry / compatibility is in a long-term relationship?
“Sexual chemistry / compatibility is only as important as sexual exclusivity / satisfaction is. And for the record: companionate marriage – the union of two individuals who love each other but don’t fuck (or don’t fuck each other) – can be wonderful.
“Polyamorous relationships are possible – I know for a fact they’re possible – but they’re only as healthy as the folks who are in them. The same goes for monogamous relationships.”